In our society today, most people have been “conditioned” to believe that getting a job and working more than forty hours per week at something they don”t really like, but pays the bills, is as good as it gets.
But it is also true, that most of us want our lives to be meaningful; we want to know where we are headed and we demand something deeper than “just a job”.
When it comes time to “shuffle off this mortal coil” we will have done something worthwhile, and not felt that we had squandered our precious time here on this weird and wonderful planet.
But are you not lucky to have a job, any job? Well, no, I think this is a furphy. You will be dead one day, so why not go for the biggest dream that turns you on? Why waste all those 9 to 5 hours doing stuff that turns you into a negative, whining, boring victim? Better off dead!
Is it a vain pursuit to think that you can have the life of your dreams? It depends what “music” you”ve been listening to. Who is making up this game of life? Your parents? Your friends? Your teachers? Your history books? Life is there for the taking”provided that you are willing to pay the price. No risk, no adventure, no failure, no success. You decide what you want your life to become “” if you dare.
So why is it so hard to change one”s life for the better?
Here are seven major fears and obstacles that stop people going after their dream life:
1. You don”t know what you want because you thought it was not an important question or you have accepted other people”s directions without any thought. When we are young, our sense of self and our level of self-esteem are dependent on our parents and teachers who decide for us what is good and bad behaviour and what rewards and punishments go with this behaviour. So we learnt how to please our authority figures by becoming the kind of person that they liked. We became “outside-in” people, not our own person. We reach a critical point in our…