Build Happy Relationships in Just 5 Easy Steps

 

It took quite a few years when I came to learn that not everything that happens in a romance movie happens in a real relationship. There are stages in our lives where we assume love must be like how we normally see it in movies, books, and TV series. Somehow, I always thought my relationships were less romantic if I failed to have such a happily-ever-after relationship. Perhaps this is the reason I’ve only met frogs instead of princes.

However, I eventually married a prince, a prince who, regardless of how fantastic he is, also has flaws and troubles just like any other human being.

I finally grew up and figured out how to release the ridiculous belief of romantic love and I found genuine bliss. True enough, I have been frustrated to find out that the knight in shining armor that saves the damsel in distress is a fiction. It’s just a product of imagination.

But let’s view it in this perspective: Stories like “Titanic” and “Romeo and Juliet” represent an unreciprocated love. Unavailability heats up the romantic expression.

Such a passionate love story may only work if there is an absence of the lover – either one will die at the end of the story or the story will have an open ending leaving you guessing if they ever lived happily ever after. The romantic love fantasy is actually a replacement for intimacy – genuine, attached, sensitive intimacy. That being said, what must we do to build happy relationships?

We start by recognizing the real meaning of love and then change and improve our perception of fairytale romance into a realistic and healthy kind of love.

 

There are 5 easy steps to develop authentic closeness, obtain genuine love, and have a really happy relationship:

1. Accept who you really are.

We usually fail at romantic love simply because we are longing for something that is unattainable, something in another individual that we actually do not possess in ourselves. Sadly, as we eventually find love, we realize that we did not obtain what we…

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